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Well, here's to hoping that the saga between the R.A., myself, and the roommates is over.
The R.A.'s reply to the email in which I laid the hammer down yet she's still not getting how her email was both offensive to my sensibilities and manages to try and turn this whole thing around into something about me disliking THEM. She also missed the point that I stated that I wasn't having any problems and that no one had been touching any of my stuff.
i apologize if you feel that way...i understand if you dont want to get to know
us. we just kinda want to get to know you since we all live together. i will let
everyone know your answers to the whole food and air thing. i think some
things are ust better said in person.
so i will pass it along and there is not need to have a meting......
if you get this paper done, does that mean you get to graduate at christmas?
that must be exciting! i can not wait until senior year! its going to be great! you
must be excited!!
oh and one last thing.....no one is going to touch your food and you personal
stuff.... someone just had been eating others people stuff and that was really
the issue.... but i will let everyone know to only touch their stuff......
oh and i love the thing you put on your door..... its nice to know what you are up
too!! i love it! and you are so busy!!! i never see you anymore..... [Fender would like to add: The R.A. is referring to a dry erase sign I bought for my door to denote my comings and goings since she seems to think I am in my room when I am not, which I should not have to do but it seems necessary since she keeps harping that I'm in my room and won't come out when I'm actually across campus at the lab or in class. >__<]
hope classes are going great for you and that you get the project and
assignments done!! good luck and let me know if you need anything or of there
is anything that i can do for you.
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My reply in which I desperately try to make her understand that it has nothing to do with my feelings towards them and has everything to do with the accusatory treatment I have received since living here (and how if she had been open and honest about the whole situation in the first place, we could have avoided all this stress).
Amber,
I feel that getting know one another cannot be forced nor can it happen in a
short period of time. It happens at random and is more gradual. Unfortunately, I
will most likely only be here for another two months, and all of my focus and
attention must go to school. It is not that I do not want to get to know any of
you; it's that the situation was never presented that way to me. Let me explain
my apprehension- the "meeting" was described as a chance for the three of you
to discuss things that you all have already been in talks about with me. If these
matters have already been discussed amongst the three of you before I was
even aware of any kind of problem, and I have been left out of the loop to the
point where I was never consulted as to even the time of the meeting before it
was arranged in the first place, it appears to me that each one of you have
probably made up your minds about the outcome of said meeting. I will not be a
scapegoat because I am the one who is at home the least. I've been down that
road before in this apartment, which is why I choose to keep to myself and why I
must concentrate so hard on my studies.
As far as my senior project, this ten page paper is only the beginning of the
project itself. Everything I've been working on thus far has been a group project
to design the overall theme of show, the print material (posters, postcards,
vinyls, etc), and the show's website, which is why I was gone all last week. I was
in the computer lab until 1AM every night working with the others to finish the
website- writing action script, javascript, html and css and designing the flash,
taking the photographs, and making logos. I was the only person who knew
how to write the css, so it was very stressful because people kept changing
their minds about what they wanted. And now I have to start work on my own
project for the show itself. Each person has an individual project to complete
which requires 8 pieces (website, posters, etc). It's all a huge undertaking with
only a month and a half left to complete it. Plus, there's a portfolio review in
October that I have to prepare for and all my other classes. I just wanted to
explain to you that I am not trying to avoid anyone or anything, but that when I
said that I didn't have time last week that I truly, truly meant it.
Sincerely,
Savanna
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The R.A.'s reply in which she tries to be a friendly, caring person while avoiding having to address the fact that I caught her and the others trying to pull me into a set up.
wow you really are busy,,, its no big deal, i just wanted all of us to talk.. the other
two girls knew each other... and now i am getting to know them.. they are great
girl! but i understand where you are coming from and how you feel.....
im always here, if you need anythign...good luck with all that school work...you
seem to be very focused...so good luck and i hope it all goes well
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RAAAAAAAAAAR!!!!1!!!! *pulls hair out* Why can't they just leave me alone?! I swear, I just want to be left to myself and finish out these next two months. College is not a girl scout meeting! I do not have to be friends with them! What is wrong with these people?! What the hell does it take!?
For those who missed it, the original set of emails that started this whole mess can be read here.
The R.A.'s reply to the email in which I laid the hammer down yet she's still not getting how her email was both offensive to my sensibilities and manages to try and turn this whole thing around into something about me disliking THEM. She also missed the point that I stated that I wasn't having any problems and that no one had been touching any of my stuff.
i apologize if you feel that way...i understand if you dont want to get to know
us. we just kinda want to get to know you since we all live together. i will let
everyone know your answers to the whole food and air thing. i think some
things are ust better said in person.
so i will pass it along and there is not need to have a meting......
if you get this paper done, does that mean you get to graduate at christmas?
that must be exciting! i can not wait until senior year! its going to be great! you
must be excited!!
oh and one last thing.....no one is going to touch your food and you personal
stuff.... someone just had been eating others people stuff and that was really
the issue.... but i will let everyone know to only touch their stuff......
oh and i love the thing you put on your door..... its nice to know what you are up
too!! i love it! and you are so busy!!! i never see you anymore..... [Fender would like to add: The R.A. is referring to a dry erase sign I bought for my door to denote my comings and goings since she seems to think I am in my room when I am not, which I should not have to do but it seems necessary since she keeps harping that I'm in my room and won't come out when I'm actually across campus at the lab or in class. >__<]
hope classes are going great for you and that you get the project and
assignments done!! good luck and let me know if you need anything or of there
is anything that i can do for you.
-------------------
My reply in which I desperately try to make her understand that it has nothing to do with my feelings towards them and has everything to do with the accusatory treatment I have received since living here (and how if she had been open and honest about the whole situation in the first place, we could have avoided all this stress).
Amber,
I feel that getting know one another cannot be forced nor can it happen in a
short period of time. It happens at random and is more gradual. Unfortunately, I
will most likely only be here for another two months, and all of my focus and
attention must go to school. It is not that I do not want to get to know any of
you; it's that the situation was never presented that way to me. Let me explain
my apprehension- the "meeting" was described as a chance for the three of you
to discuss things that you all have already been in talks about with me. If these
matters have already been discussed amongst the three of you before I was
even aware of any kind of problem, and I have been left out of the loop to the
point where I was never consulted as to even the time of the meeting before it
was arranged in the first place, it appears to me that each one of you have
probably made up your minds about the outcome of said meeting. I will not be a
scapegoat because I am the one who is at home the least. I've been down that
road before in this apartment, which is why I choose to keep to myself and why I
must concentrate so hard on my studies.
As far as my senior project, this ten page paper is only the beginning of the
project itself. Everything I've been working on thus far has been a group project
to design the overall theme of show, the print material (posters, postcards,
vinyls, etc), and the show's website, which is why I was gone all last week. I was
in the computer lab until 1AM every night working with the others to finish the
website- writing action script, javascript, html and css and designing the flash,
taking the photographs, and making logos. I was the only person who knew
how to write the css, so it was very stressful because people kept changing
their minds about what they wanted. And now I have to start work on my own
project for the show itself. Each person has an individual project to complete
which requires 8 pieces (website, posters, etc). It's all a huge undertaking with
only a month and a half left to complete it. Plus, there's a portfolio review in
October that I have to prepare for and all my other classes. I just wanted to
explain to you that I am not trying to avoid anyone or anything, but that when I
said that I didn't have time last week that I truly, truly meant it.
Sincerely,
Savanna
-----------------
The R.A.'s reply in which she tries to be a friendly, caring person while avoiding having to address the fact that I caught her and the others trying to pull me into a set up.
wow you really are busy,,, its no big deal, i just wanted all of us to talk.. the other
two girls knew each other... and now i am getting to know them.. they are great
girl! but i understand where you are coming from and how you feel.....
im always here, if you need anythign...good luck with all that school work...you
seem to be very focused...so good luck and i hope it all goes well
-------------
RAAAAAAAAAAR!!!!1!!!! *pulls hair out* Why can't they just leave me alone?! I swear, I just want to be left to myself and finish out these next two months. College is not a girl scout meeting! I do not have to be friends with them! What is wrong with these people?! What the hell does it take!?
For those who missed it, the original set of emails that started this whole mess can be read here.
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