Never let anyone tell you how to ship your ship. I'm neither a Bangel nor a Spuffy, but I could definitely see how someone could be both or even, as you said, a Spuffy who thinks that Buffy's true love is Angel.

As to the nativity creche, I am completely on your side on that. My mom works for the state and she has a hard time reminding people that in their cubicles at DHS that they are supposed to keep religious iconography to a minimum. Fat chance of that happening there. Angels and crosses everywhere in what is supposed to be a neutral place so that people feel comfortable.

The opinion that kicked off my emoness last night was I suddenly realized that most people feel that Buffy was kicked out of her house in S7. To me, no one forced her to go. They gave her an ultimatum (I hate ultimatums), but she had a choice in what she was doing. Either stay, rest, and listen to the others and their opinions or go. She chose to go break into someone's home and scare them into leaving instead of acknowledging how terrible her tactical decisions had been and getting some sleep in a relatively safe place. I don't feel like that's kicking her out of the house.