If she could learn, grow, and be able show that growth rather than devolving, regressing, and repeating the same mistakes over and over with no introspection into her own experiences, I would find her more relatable, but that growth is not there. I've become so disenfranchised with her and trying to dismiss her behavior with a "she was in a dark place" or "her daddy abandoned her." I want her to become comfortable and fulfilled even if she isn't 100% happy ('cause who is), not become Joss Whedon himself- the self-deprecating humor about mistakes being made yet not learning from those mistakes and then repeating said mistakes.

Speshul snowflakes are overrated. :D