He doesn't have time for her pitiful excuses or her idiotic daydreaming. In the long and short of it, Spike is being quite mean

Really? Given that we're talking about the space boff that destroyed the world I tend to think Spike is allowed to be both yelly and snarky and it not be considered anything but harsh words of reality.

I do think it's interesting that while trying to save places in things in the world from repercussions that ANGEL set off it takes some large sized balls for him to worry about what he needs. Hmm... maybe, Angel, it's not about you. And maybe, if he were a bit more aware that everything isn't about him, he wouldn't have been sucked into this whole, incredibly stupid "Twilight" thing twice.